I know EXACTLY how you feel! We seem to be surrounded by the very same Food Pushers that use the guilt trip too! 5 years into, my own mother is still questioning our 'fad diet' and thinks we need to condition our bodies to take gluten again by eating bread once a week. AND she is an RN! In fact, my husband and I are just recovering from a dinner from one of our Food Pusher friends who puts us in the VERY uncomfortable position of not being able to say No to her cooking a couple of times a year—-which of course, those couple of times a year we eat at her house we get glutened.